Bruce123 ( member #85782) posted at 4:04 PM on Sunday, May 4th, 2025
My husband asked me to marry him three months after we met, we were married 6 months after we had met. We were very young 19 & 20, in love and stupid.
Although very young I always knew that I never wanted children out of wedlock, I grew up with a saying from my grandmother, if you can’t make her a wife then don’t make her a mother, I’ve raised my boys with this too.
If either of my boys came to me and told me they were proposing to someone they had been dating 3 months I would advise against it but ultimately I’d support their choice and have faith they know what they’re doing, they’re smart kids.
Should anything happen to my M I would never marry again. Firstly because it effects boys psychologically if they see their mother with a man that is not their father and secondly, nobody is going to make me a mother again so there is no need for me to become a wife.
Me F BS (45)
Him WS (44)
DD 31/12/2024
